My Family’s Cherished End-of-Year Traditions

The air is filled with holiday joy, and as December unfolds its wintry embrace, my family and I eagerly dive into our beloved end-of-year traditions. These heartwarming moments not only bring us closer together but also infuse our home with the spirit of love, gratitude, and enchantment! Here are our favorite end-of-year traditions:

Deep Cleaning Our Winter Wonderland

As December approaches, our family unites for a collective mission – transforming most of our home into a blank canvas. All of our shared spaces and our guest room get a deep clean, making room for decorations, extra cooking and baking, and cherished company. Everything expired from our refrigerator and cupboard is thrown out, and we take extra non-expired non-perishables to the Food Bank or our library’s community pantry. It’s unanimous – a fresh, clean house feels so comfy, cozy, and relaxing.

Decking the Halls

With the “halls” freshly scrubbed, we begin to adorn our home! The Christmas tree, stockings, rooftop lights, and an array of decorations transform our space into our little holiday haven. Our coat closet door by our front door becomes a gallery of love, featuring the smiling faces and heartfelt messages from the Christmas cards we receive. I love the cards so much that I will often leave them up through spring!

Gingerbread Joy and Mimi's Milk Nog

Building gingerbread kits has become a delightful annual tradition for my son. We have tried so many different kinds of kits throughout the years – a mini village, football stadium, Mario house, traditional house, Oreo cookie house… This year was a Harry Potter Hogwarts cookie kit.

And what’s December without Mimi’s Milk Nog?? We can’t go a holiday season without finishing at least one carton! It takes a lot of willpower to wait until at least Thanksgiving to buy some.

Advent Calendars and Buddy's Mischief

Starting December 1st, our days leading up to Christmas are marked by the excitement of opening Advent calendar windows. My son gets two calendars each year – one has chocolates, one has toys or something fun. We’ve done several Lego Advents, a STEM kit Advent, and a fidget Advent; this year it was a Harry Potter Advent calendar.

And, of course, our mischievous Elf on the Shelf, Buddy, makes his grand entrance on December 1st, too, leaving a trail of silliness and surprises until his departure on the 24th. Buddy has been full of shenanigans over the years. One of our favorites is when he marked his height on the wall where we track our son’s height. It’s still there! In fact, we even painted around it when we repainted the walls.

Cozy Evenings with Records, Movies, and Susan Branch's Books

As the sun sets, our home is bathed in the warm glow of Christmas lights. We cue up our vintage Christmas record on the record player. (Our car radio stays on the station that plays Christmas music, starting on Thanksgiving Day.)

Evenings are often spent in the “snuggler” chair (a reclining chair-and-a-half) with our favorite plush blankets. Our senior cat purrs up a storm laying on the heating pad. I pull out my Susan Branch holiday books and spend days poring over every delightful detail (even though I’ve read them many times). We make time every December to watch our favorite timeless Christmas classics: “A Charlie Brown Christmas,” “Home Alone,” and “It’s a Wonderful Life.”

Treats for Neighbors and 4-H'ers, and Santa's Mystery Deliveries

Every December for the past several years, I find a wrapped present marked “To Amber, From Santa” on our porch. This mysterious tradition makes me feel giddy and cared about! I put the gift under the Christmas tree and wait until Christmas Day to open it. This year Santa gave me some adorable garden-themed felted wool dryer balls. They must know how I love my plants and insects!

The Giving Spirit fills us too! We pick an afternoon or evening to walk around delivering treats and cards to our neighbors, always remembering to include baggies of dog treats for our neighbor pups!

Our 4-H club members always receive a little gift as well. This year we put together bags with “snowglobe slime” (see below!), a hot cocoa packet, and a pouch of marshmallows for them.

Piano Melodies and Maker Beehive Creations

Our home resonates with the cheerful notes of my son practicing Christmas songs on the piano, a melody that becomes the soundtrack of the season. He hasn’t been taking piano lessons for a couple of years, but likes to brush up on the Christmas tunes. There is really nothing like live Christmas piano music – do you know what I mean? It feels like my heart grows 4 sizes when I listen to him play.

I, personally, love to dive into holiday crafts and art, often inspired by the wonderful community of Jennifer Chamberlin’s art membership, The Maker Beehive, of which I’ve been a member for 2 years. This year I created four 5×7″ mixed media projects (one of them is below), 7 Artist Trading Cards, and 4 mini paintings, all winter/holiday-themed, all in December. Last year I painted a cute snow family inside of a snowglobe, scanned it, and had it printed as the Christmas cards we sent out this year. I hope to do the same for next year!

Essence Card Ceremony

As the year draws to a close, I engage in my annual Essence Card Ceremony. I pull oracle and Tarot cards to represent each month of the coming year as well as the coming year as a whole. It’s a sacred moment of connection and trust, a bridge to the future that awaits.

I use the Year card I pull as my theme for the year. This year my card of the year was “Throat Chakra,” and I let the messages of that card guide and enlighten me and the situations I encountered throughout the year. My card for next year is, “The Empress” represented by Archangel Gabriel. The key phrases for this card are abundance, giving birth to dreams, and nurturing yourself and others. I will use this to guide me through the coming year.

Goals and Strategic Planning

My family and I take time to review the goals we’ve achieved, and update or set new ones for the upcoming year. Trello provides a great platform for tracking the goals I’ve set inside of a “board”. My categories are set up as lists, such as “Creative Goals,” “Family and Relationships Goals,” “House Goals,” “Community Goals,” and “Health and Wellness Goals.” When I accomplish one, I move the card over to another list called “Completed Goals,” so I can look back through them at the end of the year and see all that I’ve accomplished!

I engage in strategic planning for my business. Some of what I do in my work is pre-planned, and some is created as I go, but I like to have a framework that serves as a focus for it all, leading back to my business’ purpose, vision, and mission. I also do my End of Year processes as part of the strategic planning so I can transition from this year to the next a little more smoothly. All of that is done on Trello too!

Games, Best Friends, and the Countdown to Midnight

Sometime in the space between Christmas and New Year’s, we gather with my family’s oldest and dearest friends for a game night (or afternoon) filled with laughter and food. This has been a regular tradition, weekly at times, since I was probably my son’s age. We play card games (Hearts, Seven Up, or Oh, Hell are our favorites) and board games (Telestrations, What Do You Meme?, Taboo, and SO MANY others are favorites).

New Year’s Eve is spent with family or friends. (This year will be with my husband’s family having a fondue party!) We stay up until midnight, watching the iconic ball drop in Times Square on TV. The year my husband and I were there on a bucket list trip – NYC on NYE, watching the ball drop on Times Square, is always brought up and recounted.

Photos and Journals

Throughout the year, I keep a journal of sorts (I call it my “daily check-in,” and before the end of the year, we read through each month’s documents, recounting significant events, favorite things, and inside jokes.

We also flip through pictures in the photo box I’ve worked on all year, reliving the memories captured throughout the year. The check-ins and the photos remind us how much we’ve done and shared this year, and how much our son has grown. This year’s photo box holds the loss of our dear friends’ husband/father, end-of-elementary-school activities, the joint birthday tea party for my best friend and me, the mini-reunion with 2 of my best college friends, our trip to visit my husband’s grandma for her 99th birthday, the girls’ weekend with my best friends growing up, and so much more. Our life, in photos.

Close friends and family members receive an envelope with a stack of photos from us – extras that I printed and collected for them throughout the year. These photo packets are a visual journey through the laughter, the tears, and the moments that defined this year. I love handing these out!

The Love Inside Traditions

In our end-of-year traditions, love, connection, and joy are woven into every moment. These rituals not only create lasting memories but also serve as a reminder of the magic that resides in the simplest of traditions. As we bid farewell to one chapter and eagerly turn the page to another, our hearts are filled with gratitude for the cherished moments that define us as a family and illuminate the path to a love-filled future.

May your end-of-year celebrations be filled with love, light, and the magic of traditions that truly matter.

Our Story of The Storyteller

My son told me last week that they were finishing up a project in Art class. He said that his was a monkey with baby monkeys stacked on it, and that the project was based off of the Navajo Storyteller. I think I screamed with excitement!

Twenty years ago when I lived in Arizona, my friends and I took a road trip. During our time in Sedona, I came across a vendor who had a number of Navajo Storyteller dolls. When I read about them, I instantly thought of my Grandma M., and I bought one for her.

While Grandma was in the hospital at the end of her life 3 years later, I wrote a story for her. It was about a woman who married a man and raised a family. She loved her family, loved her community, and became her town’s librarian, where she became a storyteller to all of the children. The story was, of course, about my grandma. My grandma was the librarian in Brooklyn, Iowa. When we were little kids and visited family in Brooklyn (it was long-distance from my hometown, Grinnell), I would call the dial-a-story phone line and listen to the recording of my grandma reading a children’s book. We would also visit her at the library sometimes and she would let us check out books even though we didn’t have a Brooklyn library card! What a cool grandma I had!

I don’t know if my grandma ever got to read the story I wrote her when she was alive, but it was read during her funeral soon thereafter. And I would continue to look at the Storyteller doll I had given her, sitting on the sunroom mantle every time we visited Grandpa M., until he passed a year and a half ago. And then the doll returned to me.

When my son came home to tell me about his artwork, I couldn’t pour the story out fast enough, or retrieve this little gift fast enough to relay to him how special this project was! The other significant part is that when I was pregnant with him, I called him my “tummy monkey,” and his nursery had a monkey theme.

He brought his sweet Storyteller home last week and got to painting it, modeled after the monkey nutcracker I bought the winter I was pregnant with him. (Nutcrackers have their own story of significance here!)

I love this thread of connection – my grandma, my monkey, and me.

Designing Sacred Spaces: Infusing Your Home with Harmony

Creating a sanctuary within your home and beyond is an exquisite way to harmonize your living spaces with your spirituality and personal journey. This blog post will guide you through setting up and decorating each room in your home and other areas to create sacred spaces that resonate with your unique energy type and spiritual essence while avoiding cultural appropriation or spiritual stereotypes.

Embracing Non-Appropriation in Your Home Decor

Non-appropriation in decorating your home is an essential consideration when designing sacred spaces that honor spirituality and personal journey. It entails a respectful approach to elements from various cultures and religions, ensuring that they are used with sensitivity and cultural awareness. A crucial question to ask when contemplating an item for your sacred space is whether you understand its cultural or religious significance and are using it in a manner that is respectful and informed.

Avoid commodifying or trivializing sacred symbols, artifacts, or practices, and instead, strive to learn about their meanings, origins, and proper use. By doing so, you not only respect the diverse traditions of our world but also foster an environment that is in harmony with your spirituality and the spirituality of others, creating a more inclusive and spiritually enriched and aligned living space. Recognizing and avoiding items or elements that are part of closed practices is invaluable.

Understanding Closed Practices and Cultural Respect

“Closed” practices, in the context of cultural appropriation, refer to spiritual or cultural traditions that are not openly accessible or appropriate for outsiders to adopt or practice. These traditions are typically exclusive to a particular cultural or religious group and involve rituals, beliefs, or practices that are deeply rooted in their heritage. These closed practices often have significant cultural or religious significance, and participating in them without proper understanding, consent, or initiation can be seen as disrespectful, appropriative, or offensive.

Closed practices may include certain Native American rituals, ceremonies within specific indigenous communities, or religious rituals within certain belief systems. The idea behind keeping these practices closed is to protect the sanctity, integrity, and cultural heritage associated with them. Attempting to participate in these closed practices without permission or adequate knowledge can lead to misunderstanding, misrepresentation, and a lack of respect for the culture or tradition from which they originate.

It is essential to respect the boundaries of closed practices and seek permission or guidance from practitioners within the culture or tradition if you wish to engage with them in a responsible and culturally sensitive manner.

Embark on a Soulful Journey: Decorating with Respect and Authenticity

As we navigate the delicate path of respecting cultural diversity, let’s now explore how to infuse your living spaces with spirituality, creativity, and personal energy in an authentic way. By understanding the nuances of cultural respect and appreciation, we can create harmonious and meaningful home environments that celebrate our unique journeys.

heart door wreath - designing sacred spaces

The Entryway: A Welcoming Gateway

Your home’s entryway serves as the first point of contact between your personal sanctuary and the outside world. Consider decorating this space with symbols or images that represent protection, blessings, and positivity. Ideas might include:

  • Flowers or a plant
  • Wind chimes just outside your door
  • Heart-shaped wreath imbued with intentions
  • Horseshoe (open end pointing up)
  • Your own cultural or spiritual symbols

You might consider where you’d like to focus or display these symbols – on the doormat, front window, on or above the front door, etc.

The Living Room: A Space for Gathering and Harmony

In your living room, create an atmosphere of unity and harmony. Consider colors and the energy they naturally carry and choose those that will best support those you live with, cherished guests, and yourself.

You can incorporate elements such as crystals, artwork, or sculptures that hold personal significance. Arrange your furniture to encourage conversations and connections among your guests.

The power of this room is in its name: living! What should this room hold and display to support the life in your home?

Some ideas might include: 

  • Great cuddling blankets and furniture
  • Items needed for favorite activities you share with your loved ones
  • Special mementos, photos or images, and other objects

The Dining Room: Nourishing Body and Soul

Your dining area is where you partake in meals, offering sustenance for both body and soul. Enhance this space by incorporating natural materials, such as wood and textiles, that promote grounding and nourishment. Light candles or use soft lighting to create an intimate ambiance for sharing meals and meaningful conversations.

Perhaps a favorite mantra or prayer could be printed as wall art or stitched into a tablecloth. Or maybe items collected during a nature walk would make a perfect centerpiece on the dining table. 

bright kitchen - designing sacred spaces

The Kitchen: Culinary Spirituality

In the kitchen, prepare and consume food with mindfulness and gratitude. Infuse your cooking with intention and loving energy, focusing on the nourishing aspects of food preparation. You can keep a small shelf altar with herbs or a vase of fresh flowers, adding beauty and spirituality to your culinary creations. 

Consider how the elements can bring harmony to your kitchen. You might choose materials such as stone and wood for earthiness and grounding, a washable rug and cotton or hemp towels, and be sure to allow plenty of open space for air to move freely. Another great place for chimes is near your kitchen window!

The Bedroom: A Tranquil Sanctuary

Your bedroom is your private retreat, a place of rest and rejuvenation. Create a serene atmosphere by using calming colors and textures. Bedding and linens can be chosen to promote peaceful sleep and dreams. Consider placing an item like an essential oil diffuser with soothing scents to enhance relaxation.

This is definitely a space to bring out your spiritual tools and icons. A meditation cushion and soft blankets would be great tucked into the corner, or under the dresser or bed for quick and easy access. Photos or images of angels or spiritual guides or teachers that resonate with you may be focal points for intentions, as well as help you feel protected, supported, and loved.

The Home Office or Studio: Root into Your Creativity

If you have a home office or studio, this is your creative space. Decorate it with items that inspire and motivate you. Place meaningful art, books, or artifacts that encourage your creative energy and help you focus on your projects.

Colors that have spiritual connection for you can serve as a color scheme for your furniture and even day-to-day tools. Symbols can adorn your walls, windows, bookcases, filing cabinets, and desks. A calendar of mantras or positive affirmations might hang on the wall or sit next to your computer screen. You could include a sacred animal guide in a decorative object or as your computer wallpaper.

The Laundry Room: Cleansing and Purifying

The laundry room, where we cleanse our clothes, can be seen as a symbol of cleansing negative energies. You can place a small amethyst crystal near your washer to help purify the energies associated with your laundry. You might tie up lavender sachets or have a pretty oil diffuser to run while you’re washing or folding a load. A mantra or affirmation about releasing could be hung on the wall.

child's bedroom - designing sacred spaces

A Child's Bedroom: Encouraging Safe Growth

Decorate a child’s bedroom with items that invoke feelings of safety, creativity, and love. Use soft colors and artwork that sparks imagination. You might also place sculptures, toys, or other objects made by the child or other meaningful objects that represent their unique journey.

An altar made of photos of beloved family members and ancestors, along with items they’ve collected from nature can be placed on a shelf or on their dresser. A soft lamp that shines constellations or has star cutouts could serve as a perfect night light. Books encouraging self-love, kindness, peace, and healing kept on the shelves will be there at their fingertips when they can’t sleep or need a quiet moment in their room.

Closets: Hidden Reflections

Though often overlooked, closets are where we store our most personal belongings. Keep your closets organized and clutter-free to allow for energy flow. You can also use space-saving bags to store off-season clothing or infuse your closet with the scents of lavender, cedar, or sandalwood.

Hallways: Flow of Energy

Hallways connect your rooms and should serve as a channel for the flow of positive energy. Use mirrors to create the illusion of space, and consider adding meaningful artwork or photographs that inspire you.

The Garage: Practical Sacred Space

For many, the garage is a practical space rather than a spiritual one. However, you can make this area more organized and intentional by designating specific areas for different purposes, like storage, hobbies, or car maintenance. Clearing clutter and keeping the garage organized can lead to a more balanced and efficient environment.

In Your Car: Personal Sanctuary on Wheels

The interior of your car is your space while on the go. Keep it tidy and clutter-free. Consider using essential oils or air fresheners with scents that uplift your mood during your daily commute. Keep a small inspiring item or charm on the dashboard or in the console as a reminder of your journey’s spiritual aspect.

A guardian angel can be clipped to your visor – simply reach up and touch it to activate your intention for safety and protection.

Harmony in Your Home and Heart

Your home and its surroundings are reflections of your spiritual and personal journey. By thoughtfully designing and decorating each space, including outdoor areas and even your car interior, you can create an environment that aligns with your spirituality while respecting diverse traditions and avoiding stereotypes. Make these spaces an extension of your inner light, enhancing your holistic well-being in the process.

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Uncovering Your Innate Gifts: A Journey to Illuminate Your Inner Light

Each of us possesses a unique and radiant light, a light that encompasses our individuality, our purpose, and our potential. This inner light, the essence of our being, is the wellspring of our innate gifts. As we delve into this captivating journey of self-discovery, we’ll explore the profound concept of inner light, the nature of gifts, and the transformative impact they hold.

The Inner Light: Your Guiding Beacon

The concept of inner light is an age-old belief shared across various spiritual and philosophical traditions. It represents the divine spark within each of us, the core of our existence that connects us to a higher consciousness and the interconnectedness of all life. It’s a reminder that we are not separate entities but a part of a greater whole, and yet it’s a reminder to embrace our authenticity.

The inner light is the foundation of our being, and acknowledging it is the first step towards recognizing our innate gifts. By cultivating a sense of self-awareness and mindfulness, we can become attuned to our inner light, connecting with our true essence.

Unveiling Your Innate Gifts: The Journey Within

Our innate gifts encompass a wide spectrum of talents, qualities, and potentials. They can be skills, personality traits, spiritual gifts, or unique attributes that set us apart. Recognizing these gifts is an intricate journey within, a journey that invites us to explore the following avenues:

 

  1. Introspection: Self-reflection is a powerful tool to uncover your innate gifts. Ask yourself what activities make you lose track of time or what traits others admire in you.
  2. Feedback: Seek input from trusted friends and family. Sometimes, others can see our gifts more clearly than we can.
  3. Passions and Interests: Your interests often align with your innate gifts. What activities or subjects spark your enthusiasm?
  4. Meditation and Mindfulness: Practicing mindfulness and meditation can reveal your inner light and the gifts that flow from it.
  5. Life Experiences: Past experiences and challenges can shed light on your strengths and resilience.

The Transformative Power of Knowing Your Gifts

Knowing your innate gifts has a profound impact on your life. It enables you to:

  • Align with Purpose: Recognizing your gifts can guide you toward a life that aligns with your purpose, bringing you a deep sense of fulfillment.

  • Boost Confidence: Understanding your unique strengths boosts self-confidence, enhancing your ability to tackle challenges.

  • Contribute to the World: Your gifts are not just for your benefit; they can be used to make a positive impact on the world, contributing to the greater good.

  • Build Authentic Connections: By embracing your gifts, you attract people and opportunities that resonate with your true self.

  • Navigate Challenges: Your gifts can serve as tools to overcome life’s challenges, leading to personal growth and resilience.

Living from Your Gifts: Embracing Your Unique Brilliance

Once you’ve uncovered your innate gifts, the next step is to embrace and integrate them into your daily life. Here’s how you can live more fully from your gifts:

 

  1. Express Gratitude: Cultivate gratitude for your gifts, as gratitude enhances their power.
  2. Set Intentions: Set intentions to utilize your gifts for personal growth and the benefit of others.
  3. Continuous Learning: Keep nurturing and developing your gifts through education and practice.
  4. Share with Others: Find ways to share your gifts with the world, whether through your work, relationships, or service to your community.
  5. Collaborate: Collaborate with others who share your passions and gifts, creating a harmonious synergy.

Uncovering Your Innate Gifts

In the grand tapestry of life, recognizing your inner light and uncovering your innate gifts is a journey of profound self-discovery. It’s an opportunity to embrace your authenticity, align with your purpose, and create a meaningful, joyful, and spirit-filled life. As you illuminate your inner light, your gifts become a guiding beacon, helping you navigate the path of your unique brilliance. Embrace your gifts, and let them shine brightly for the world to see.

Join us over in Live Your Light and share your thoughts! What are your innate gifts, and how have they impacted your life? Let’s embark on this journey together. 

 

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Inspiring and Creative Ideas for Good Deeds

I thought it might be helpful during my Do Something Good Challenge to compile a list of ideas that might give you some inspiration for your own good deeds.

I’d love to hear from you about the good things you’re doing. Drop me a line and tell me all about it!

Inspiring Ideas to Do Something Good

? Make a meal for a neighbor.
? Purchase something from a teacher’s wish list.
? Send new parents something from their baby registry.
? Tip your server more than 15%.
? Put a bucket of individual snack bags (chips, pretzels, etc.) and bottled water by your mailbox for your mail carrier and other delivery people.
? Put things you want to get rid of on a table next to your curb with a sign that says “FREE STUFF”.
? Set up a Little Free Library, Little Free Pantry, or Little Free Seed Library.
? Create a pollinator garden. Don’t forget to include milkweed!
? Host a BIPOC book drive for your community school or public library.
? Weed your elderly neighbor’s flower bed (with their permission and guidance).
? Designate a charity on AmazonSmile and only place Amazon orders through AmazonSmile.
? Make a list of charities and non-profits you love and send a donation each month to one of them.
? Follow your favorites charities and non-profits on social media and when you see them post specific needs, send something to them.
? Work with neighbors to trap a stray dog and take it to the animal shelter.
? Take a bag with you when you go on a walk and pick up the trash you see during your route.
? Purchase a gift card, take it into the store it’s for, and give it to someone shopping there.
? Celebrate your birthday by doing acts of kindness – try to do the number of years you are! (For example, 44 acts of kindness on your 44th birthday.)
? Send a care package to a college student or exchange student.
? Call a friend who’s been going through something difficult and lend your support.
? Take a friend out (or invite them over) to celebrate their birthday, promotion at work, new job, or other great news.
? Set up a bird feeding and bathing station in your yard.
? Buy from a local small business instead of a big box store or amazon.
? Allow a fellow driver to go first.
? Write a thank-you note to your favorite former teacher, boss, or coach, or someone else who made an impact on you.
? Learn CPR.
? Ask friends and family to forgo gift-giving for birthdays and holidays and instead give you specific items that you can donate to your favorite cause/non-profit instead. (Example: dog/cat food to give the animal shelter.)
? Install the Box Tops for Education app on your phone and designate a school. Each time you shop for groceries, scan your receipt in the app so the school can receive the Box Tops rewards. (It adds up over time!)

 

Podcast: Sharing About My Family’s Experience with Covid with Lisa Renee of GingerMysteries

This past year has been an experience of trauma upon trauma on our individual and collective levels. I believe that talking about it – sharing our stories, sharing our fears, sharing our experiences will pave the way to our individual and collective healing.
  
Lisa Renee of GingerMysteries invited me on her podcast, Transcending the Ordinary, where she has been chatting with guests about their experiences with the pandemic. I’d love to invite you to listen in as Lisa and I chat about my family’s experience with Covid. I also share about the guilt and shame I’ve felt around not being able to emotionally cope, despite the fact that my family came through the illness well.
  
Wherever you are in this period that we’re going through, support is available and love abounds.
  

Transcending the Ordinary Podcast: My Family's Experience with Covid

by Lisa Renee and Amber Diehm Heuer